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feuervogel) wrote2014-09-10 08:36 am
feuervogel) wrote2014-09-10 08:36 am
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Am I being weird about this?
My sister is pregnant. I want to crochet her (baby) a blanket.
I emailed my mom to ask if that's something she'd like, and mom replies that I should email sis a picture of the pattern and let her decide if she wants it and pick a color.
Isn't that the opposite of a gift? I'd planned to go to the store and pick out a pattern from a book and some yarn, or get yarn that has a pattern on the label. I want to make something very neutral gendered: no pink or blue, no patterns (hearts or flowers). I saw a book of afghan crochet (the kind of crochet that's like single-hook knitting) baby blankets, and I liked one of the patterns in it.
Honestly, now I don't even want to bother.
Anyway, internets, am I wrong for being upset that I should let a gift be dictated?
I emailed my mom to ask if that's something she'd like, and mom replies that I should email sis a picture of the pattern and let her decide if she wants it and pick a color.
Isn't that the opposite of a gift? I'd planned to go to the store and pick out a pattern from a book and some yarn, or get yarn that has a pattern on the label. I want to make something very neutral gendered: no pink or blue, no patterns (hearts or flowers). I saw a book of afghan crochet (the kind of crochet that's like single-hook knitting) baby blankets, and I liked one of the patterns in it.
Honestly, now I don't even want to bother.
Anyway, internets, am I wrong for being upset that I should let a gift be dictated?