Considering that I literally never see him, that isn't likely to be a thing I can do. I talked about this on facebook, and a friend said that Dennis once verbally abused her, and she avoided him after that.

What needs to happen, TBH, is that everybody who knows me and him needs to say that he was wrong, that I am a person who deserves respectful treatment, and that he is no longer welcome in their lives.

I am willing to cut anyone out of my life who disagrees, because choosing the side of no "drama" is choosing the side of the abuser.