I've read some excellent paranormal romance (Jessica Andersen comes immediately to mind, great worldbuilding, interesting ensemble cast, not too over the top with the smexxing), but yeah, I'm not terribly interested in the ones that put more emphasis on who the heroine is boinking than upon the actual plot.

And you should stay very far away from LKH, yes. I read the first several and they were not good, but they were entertaining. I bailed as soon as she took a hard right turn into pr0nland and haven't missed her since.