My comment was really in response to your original comment, which said "This whole post-gendered thing I have going is seriously held up by the people who are still binary-identified."

Wanting people to realize that there are people who don't want to be gendered and who don't want to identify as any gender at all is a very different statement. If you really have no problem with folks who strongly identify as one gender or another, then maybe you should refrain from saying things like your original comment.